Briana and Preston were married just before Christmas. They took advantage of his being home on leave. He deploys for Afghanistan in March. I took two things away from this wedding.
The first is family. When I first met with Briana and her mom (and aunts) she told me that theirs was an unusual family situation. It reminded me of the old joke, “hey, did you hear the one about the functional family?” Families do come in all sizes, types, and forms. Family isn’t so much about a genetic relationship as it is about being with people that love, and look after each other. Briana and Preston’s family is tight. You can tell right away that they have each other’s backs. They love each other and family comes first. That makes for a great wedding.
The second thing is gratitude. Other than one brother-in-law who served in the Marine Corp before I knew him, I have no family in the military, and never served myself. Yet I benefit from the service of every man and woman who does. When I first arrived at the wedding that day and saw Preston in his Army dress blues, I only thought how good he would look in photos. By the end of the night, I was reminded of the debt we owe our service men and women for their sacrifices on our behalf. Like I said, Preston ships out for Afghanistan in March. I thank him and all those like him.






















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